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Together with, studsband is the the fresh new word of the slip. Only after a while to have cuffing year, could possibly get i present the idea of the “studsband”?

Carmen: “Can get i establish the concept of the brand new ‘studsband’” was what my class cam phone calls my entire life’s agenda.

Nico: Yes. The latest patriarchy is one thing we should instead divest from inside bigger ways than simply such as for example, which we would feel pegging.

Carmen: But We agree, bisexuals obtain the crappy agent from “waiting on hold to your patriarchy,” and i believe that is because it’s better to scapegoat than just think into hard fact that if you was in fact increased with this earth, the fresh patriarchy had baked with the you more youthful hottie

Really, I do believe i landed into some thing interesting, that is there was which imagined gradient certainly one of gender/sexual orientation locally, where people – and especially bisexuals and bisexual femmes, since you discussed therefore incredibly on your section on the “Bongos” – is pinpointed much more aligned with patriarchy when that isn’t always possible along with when planning on taking it individual by individual. (suite…)